Careful planning and consideration are required when entering the divorce process, with some essential steps before making your application. This includes having important conversations, managing expectations, understanding divorce costs and finding the right divorce solicitor. By taking these initial steps, you can navigate the divorce process with greater confidence and clarity, making the journey more manageable.
Here are the first things to do when planning a divorce.
Conversations to have about divorce
Before initiating divorce proceedings, try to engage in open and honest conversations with your spouse, setting the tone for the entire process. Your discussions should help you reach mutual agreements on various aspects of your divorce, such as property division, child arrangements and ongoing support.
If you have children, discuss their well-being and living arrangements, considering what is in their best interests. You should also address money matters, including the division of assets and debts, spousal support and child support, being transparent about your financial situation. You should also think about what will happen to your home.
Even if you have not come to a mutual agreement on money, property and children when applying for a divorce, the discussions will give you a clearer idea about each party’s position.
Have realistic expectations about the divorce process
While legal support can assist in making divorce more straightforward, it is essential to have realistic expectations from the outset. Understand that divorce can be time-consuming and emotionally taxing, even if you and your spouse have remained amicable.
Be prepared for the minimum timeframe UK divorces take, which is at least six to seven months, even in those without delays or complications. It is a good idea to familiarise yourself with the legal steps involved and the different applications required, consulting with a divorce solicitor to understand how your specific situation could affect the process.
Understand divorce costs
To set expectations and reduce stress, find out more about the potential costs involved with divorce. This will vary from case to case based on several factors, including the complexity of your circumstances and whether you are in agreement with your spouse.
Expenses include application and court fees, which are available on the government website. You should also factor in any legal fees from your divorce lawyer and the impact of financial settlements on your present and future position.
Hire the right divorce solicitor
There are many benefits of hiring a divorce lawyer, and choosing the right solicitor is one of the first steps you should take. An experienced family law firm can guide you through the legal complexities and help protect your interests, ensuring smoother proceedings.
When doing your research, look for solicitors with experience in family law and divorce cases. You should then schedule a consultation with potential divorce lawyers to discuss your case and get a sense of their approach and fees. Choose someone you feel comfortable with to communicate openly, discussing your goals and expectations for the divorce.
Get expert divorce advice now
Are you planning a divorce and need expert advice from a friendly solicitor? Call Bellwether Solicitors. As a family law specialist, we have got you covered. We operate through Cheam and Kingston, with clients from Chessington, Epsom and beyond.
To get started, contact our team.
