Meeting a divorce specialist for the first time can be daunting, especially if you have never been through legal proceedings like this before. To take the mystery out of the process, here are some of our best tips ahead of your initial divorce solicitor meeting.
Is it best to use a solicitor for a divorce?
Divorce can be complex, especially if there is shared property, finances or children involved. While there is such a thing as a DIY divorce, this can be risky. If you want to ensure fair outcomes for each party and take child arrangements or finances into account, you will need to use the services of a divorce lawyer.
An experienced solicitor will tailor advice and services to your circumstances, ensuring all agreements are legally sound to protect your best interests both now and in the future.
What can I expect from a divorce consultation?
What to expect during the first meeting with a divorce solicitor will come down to your individual needs, goals and situation. It is a smart idea to consider what you would like to achieve (such as spousal support or a ‘clean break’) and child arrangement plans you and your spouse have already discussed.
Your lawyer will aim to gather as much relevant information from you as possible to ascertain the path forward. You will be asked lots of questions about you, your spouse, children, assets, debts and more. Your solicitor will also go through timescales and expected costs.
Be honest, realistic about divorce timeframes and open to a collaborative approach.
What questions should you ask your divorce solicitor?
Do you have questions for your divorce lawyer? Although some answers will become clear during your first meeting and your solicitor will give you lots of information, write down anything you want to know.
Common questions to ask include expected fees and payment timescales, the next steps, how often you should expect to hear from your solicitor, the best communication channels if you have more questions, their dispute resolution approach, plus anything else you are worried about.
What do you need to take with you when meeting a divorce lawyer?
If you are unsure what to take with you when meeting your divorce solicitor, it is always best to ask ahead of time so you can get prepared in advance. They will let you know what they need, as well as any documents required (like your marriage certificate, joint account details and property deeds).
It can also be helpful to make a note of certain information, such as the date you got married (and separated), when you bought your property, the full names and dates of birth of your children, details of prenuptial or postnuptial agreements, and a summary of joint and individual assets and debts (mortgages, properties, loans, businesses, pensions etc.).
Contact Bellwether Solicitors today for an initial consultation
Bellwether Solicitors provides friendly divorce services, advising on every part of the process. We work with clients across Cheam and Kingston, including family law advice in Worcester Park and Banstead. Contact us now to get started.
